Qualifications for Being a Mentor
A mentor is a person who leaves a living legacy behind in the form of people who have benefited from the mentor's life experiences.' Source: Unknown. Each one of us has a life that is a unique tapestry and within the threads of that tapestry are life experiences waiting to be shared. You don't need all the answers, possess a PHD or be the CEO of a Fortune 100 company. You should however have a genuine interest in sharing your life experience and expertise in a mentor/Mentee relationship. There are many qualities and skills that good mentors share. Mentors:
- Listen: Can you offer an ear, and not necessarily advice?
- Are Accessible: Does your schedule permit a mentoring relationship?
- Share: Are you willing to share your knowledge, expertise, skills, and time?
- Motivate: Can you motivate the Mentee to reach their full potential?
- Provide Insight: Can you use your personal experience to help your Mentee avoid mistakes and learn from good decisions?
- Guide: Can you guide the Mentee to determine his/her right course of action; not preach or dictate?
- Provide a Positive Influence: Do you project a positive, upbeat image? Are you a positive role model?
- Are Honest and Open: Can you offer your thoughts and constructive feedback honestly and openly?
- Provide a Fresh Perspective: Can you help your Mentee see a situation with fresh eyes?
- Offer Advice: Can you offer advice – only if asked? Your Mentee may want a sounding board to help him/her work out issues and come to their own conclusion.
- Are Cheerleaders: Can you offer support and encouragement?
'Few things in the world are more powerful than a positive push. A smile. A word of optimism and hope. A ‘you can do it’ when things are tough.' Source: Richard M. De Vos. Join 'MentorCity™' and make the world of difference in the life of a Mentee.
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